This is my The Empower Network – Blog Posting Number Nine
Determined To Succeed - NO Excuses
I REALLY needed to hear what was being said.
You
see, I have been on the internet for quite awhile now. I first started
part time in 1994. I have been working full time on the internet since
2000. Went full time in 2000. It has been quite a ride and a definite
lifesaving event to say the least for me.
You
see my story is quite a bit different from any of those hyped up crap
stories we all constantly hear about. So don’t worry, I am not going to
bore you right out of your skull with any of those.
During
my stint on the internet I have had 5 heart attacks, one requiring a 5
by-pass surgery, another heart attack requiring a 2 by-pass surgery,
another heart attack requiring stent surgery, yet another heart attack
which was a warning sign that I was pushing it working 2 1/2 days
straight, They performed Cardia-Cath surgery and yes yet another heart attack warning me that I was pushing
it working 20 hours a day three days in a row, and they performed Cardia-Cath surgery once again.
You see I am a TRUE entrepreneur. The ULTIMATE work-a-holic. It is NOT work for me. I absolutely LOVE
being an entrepreneur. I first recognized “my calling” when I was only
13 years old. I knew then what I wanted to be when I grew up. An Entrepreneur.
Now,
unfortunately, each heart attack is a temporary setback. You are down
in the hospital for awhile, you finally get home, your wife begs you to
take it easy, so you do because she is crying her eyes out staring you
right in the face in fear that she is going to lose her husband and be
alone.
But
then, after you have assured her that everything is going to be
alright, with the help of your loving wife…she props a pillow up in your
work chair to help ease the discomfort and pain, because she knows that
just standing at the bathroom sink to brush your teeth is tiring
enough, but now you must get back to business.
So
you make your way to your 30 second commute that for some reason seems
much farther than that today. And with the help of your loving wife you plop down in extreme
pain into your chair. But ahhhh. The old throne feels great! Then you
start to realize just how much you have missed it. The fire within
starts to burn once again. You can feel the creative juices starting to
flow again.
But,
you see when they did the surgery they split your chest open, sawed
your rib cage on both sides, actually opened you up like a book, removed
your heart from your chest, put you on a machine to keep you alive,
made an incision on your inner left leg from your knee down to your
ankle because they needed the vein for the by-pass, made another
incision on the left inner forearm from your elbow down to your wrist
because they need another vein for the by-pass.
And
when they put you all back together again, since they had to saw your
chest plate in two it is now wired back together and because of the
extent of ALL
of your incisions you not only have hundreds of stitches, but they also
had to use staples which at times feel like they are ripping into your
flesh if you moved just the slightest wrong way.
After
your loving wife helps you get positioned just right in the chair, she
must help you elevate your left leg out to one side of your computer
desk so as to make sure the incision does not open. Then she must make
sure it is wrapped at the ankle because of all of the drainage that is
still seeping from your leg. You can't even wear a sock for any long
length of time because it becomes drenched from all of the seepage.
Then
your loving wife quickly gets your hydrocodone or oxycodone, depending
on what level of pain you are in, and then fixes you a cup of coffee.
And
through all of this…you both know that you will only be able to
tolerate the pain of sitting up in that damn chair for only so long.
Maybe 2 hours…maybe 4 hours tops. 4 hours is complete agony.
But you both know that you HAVE to do it if you are going to succeed, you HAVE to do it because of the inner burning fire to make it, you HAVE
to do it because NOTHING is going to prevent you from achieving your
goal of financial freedom and being able to provide your loving wife
with all that she desires.
Then…your loving wife helps you through the extreme,
mind wrenching pain and agony of getting up out of that damn chair,
you make your way back to your bed, having to stop what seems like a
hundred times to catch your breath and because it feels like your chest
is going to explode.
Then
the worse part of it all…Making your way back down to that bed and
feeling your rib cage shifting on both sides just enough to make you scream
out in pain, then you feel your chest plate that is wired together
g.r.i.n.d, then that leg that is spit open like a melon has to be
twisted so you can adjust a turn just before plopping down onto the bed
screaming in EXTREME pain,
then here comes the chest pain because of all of the stress of what you
have just been though. Your loving wife goes running to get the nitro
to pop under your tongue, hoping this is not the big and final one.
Finally
you are able to get as comfortable as you can, your loving wife runs to
get you some more pain killers, puts a pillow very carefully under your
leg to keep it elevated, puts an extra pillow or two behind your head
so you are not laying too flat causing you even more pain. Then the next
thing you know…you dose off in complete exhaustion.
Then
you wake up, your loving wife with her hand on your face asks "Well
mister are you ready to get back at it?!", then together…you go through
the process of getting set up in that damn chair, the pain killers, the
coffee, propping up the leg, etc….all over again.
All
the while you know that each precious moment in time must be spent
wisely. Because you definitely do not know how much time that you really
have. More so than most people.
You
See, in June 2012 we were told that they have pretty much done all they
can do. They cannot perform any further by-passes, there is no place
left for stents, and that according to the stress test, angioplasty,
electrocardiogram, and echo-cardiogram, I am back down to just 2 open
arteries. I have been given additional medication to help extend my
life, which now amounts to taking 15 medications each and every day.
Each medication has its own set of side effects. Some worse than
others. Unfortunately the most common side effect with all of them is
headaches. So being a walking pharmacy, I definitely have my good days
and my bad days believe me.
The
cardiologist and 2 other doctors have asked me what in God's name has
kept me going. That they are amazed at my recovery rate, my drive, and
my will to survive. I tell them because I am determined to accomplish my
goals of self-employment and financial freedom before I die and to make
sure that my loving wife will be able to live the rest of her life debt
free and answer to nobody. That I MUST
succeed. The cardiologist and the doctors just stared at me…smiling. I
could not believe it when the cardiologist had a tear running down his
cheek, put his hand on my shoulder and said "Amen to that brother". He
then turned to the other 2 doctors and said "Wow, how about that!”
You
see, I am one of those guys you hear about that had it all and then
lost it. Well pretty much threw it away for an ex-wife that said "It or
me". So I have had a taste of the good life. I know what it is like to
tip the waitress $50 just before Christmas that is struggling to support
her kids just so I could see her light up with joy. You know what I
am talking about. Passing it forward kind of thing.
UPDATE: As an update to this article I have the following news. On December 10, 2016 I suffered my 6th heart attack that came VERY close to killing me. It has been a VERY long battle back, but I defeated all odds and am MORE than ready to get back to business as usual. I can't believe the support, kind words of encouragement, etc. that I received from people all over the planet. Truly unbelievable. My wife tells me that she received a calls from business assocates asking how I was doing and that you were trying to reach me. At that time I was going through quite a bit and she was not sure how much I would want devulged. I can tell you without a doubt...the medical trials I had to go through to get the right combination of meds were almost as bad as the heart attacks themselves. Depression, mind boggling off the wall head splitting headaches, stomach pain almost beyond belief, mind bending to the point of almost losing sanity, ear ringing so loud you can't understand the person standing right in front of you, the list goes on and on. After it was all said and done, am still on 13 meds per day to sustain my life. And miraculously there is very little heart muscle damage.
UPDATE: As an update to this article I have the following news. On Thursday April 26, 2018 I went into the hospital for yet another Cardiac-Cath surgery. It happened because two weeks prior I had a office visit and I was not doing too good. Having a LOT of shortness of breath, and VERY fatigued. Both conditions were getting worse as each day passed. My personal was worried enough that he contacted my cardiologist right then and scheduled an appointment. When I seen the cardiologist, he immediately called in two other cardiologist, ran an EKG and said, "You must have another Cardiac-Cath immediately!".
The two week wait seemed like eternity. Afterwards it was discovered that I had an excessive amount of water forming around my heart causing my heart to work much too hard. Which contributed to the shortness of breath and the fatigue. So I was subscribed a water pill. Which has made unbelievable difference. Shortness of breath is totally gone, the fatigue has totally disappeared, energy is back, I am back!
When
I suffered the whopper heart attack in 2000, working at home became a
must. I went out and bought a computer, armed with what seemed like a
ton of text books, self-taught myself to use it and then self-taught
myself without a mentor to use the internet, create a website, blogs,
write articles, etc. You can type into Google:
James
Deo Dawson Sr “JD”, WorkAtHomeBusinessSecrets.webs.com,
JamesDeoDawsonSrWorld.info, JDDawsonAssociates.webs.com and I will come
up.
James Deo Dawson typed into Bing search seems to bring up the most.
Now
in our humble household, every day is just another adventure. I say
"adventure" pretty much out of habit. You see, the wife and I have been
through a lot. Each time that we have a new issue to overcome, one of us
will say, "Oh well! Just another adventure for Jim and Diane! The
adventures of Jim and Diane!”
Well,
I am more than ready for another adventure today. I am up for the
challenge if you are. How about it, are you gonna' come join me in
business to see what challenges we can overcome today on our new and
exciting adventures?
Sorry
for the length of this posting. To me it was all important and needed
to be said so you would clearly understand the gravity of being "Determined To Succeed - NO Excuses™".
None
of us really knows how much time we have on mother earth. People can be
so very, very wasteful with the precious time that they have been
allowed. Never really understanding just how precious their time is
until a catastrophe of some sort enters into their life. Then they
quickly and abruptly discover, just how short their time really can be.
So
PLEASE treat every minute like it may be your last. Because take it
from me, someone who REALLY knows...That next minute....That last look
into your loved ones eyes...That last kiss...That chance to change
everything and to make your life and your loved ones last moments in
time, that will be remembered forever...really…really...special.
Success and all that comes with it will, once accomplished by me, will be my last contribution of giving all I had to my very
loving wife. And when my time has come, I will pass knowing that I had
accomplished my goal...I finally succeeded…my last gift to my wife so
she may live in complete freedom.
"Determined To Succeed - NO Excuses™".
And Always Remember..."Success Begins With A Dream" ™ - JD
Respectfully,
James Deo Dawson Sr "JD", NMD
Daily Motivator
About The Author:
I
have an extensive background in sales and marketing consisting of fund
raising, home improvement, mortgages, magazine sales, architectural
estimating, independent distributorship consulting, Sr. account
representative, execute product and service pricing plans, research and
analyze competition, execute marketing objectives and sales to sell
company products and services. I am an entrepreneur with many business
interests. My official business title is Business Development Strategist.
I have been searching for that illustrious
dream of entrepreneurship. And it has been over a 50 year venture,
allowing me to come into contact with people from all walks of life and
has allowed me to help many people realize their dreams. AND what I call
"Realize Themselves". Which was really agonizing for me, because even though they did not know it, I was really trying to do the very same thing with my own life.
And you hear the stories saying "Watch for it!", "What you are searching for could be right there if front of you and if you are not careful...you could miss it!". Well I am sad but at the same time VERY happy to say..."I Found It".
To think that I use to help ,my grandmother,
whom was a professional writer, for many hours on end with her writings
for the local Indianapolis Star newspaper, countless magazine articles,
and her novel that she was working tirelessly on. Then as the years
rolled by I was responsible for creating architectural building documents
and even wrote the specifications used with each and every construction discipline. Created contracts, resumes, flyers, ad campaigns, and since being online I have created numerous websites and blogs.
Then
one day my wife wanted to see one of my creations. I actually watched
her chin drop. I actually seen her eyes widen. Then she turned to me and
said..."My God Jim, you missed your true calling. YOU are a writer!". Now for some stupid reason I just kind of chuckled, thanked her for her kind words and then sat down and continued my work not even giving it a second thought.
Then
recently I started receiving comments from business associates, all
saying that I was an excellent writer. One even went to his Facebook
business page praising me for my work. THEN on Monday, Jun 15, 2015, I was introduced to American Writers & Artists, Inc. via a "The Barefoot Writer Club" video that I had been sent by a business associate.
The Barefoot Writer Club video actually made the hair on the back of my neck straight up on end. I
could not believe what I was hearing. Then when it was mentioned that I
could pay a half price application and one year membership fee not only
into The Barefoot Writer Club AND into the American Writers &
Artist, Inc., I found myself RUNNING though my apartment to find my
pants, yes my pants...I was sitting at my desk dressed for bed, to grab my wallet to pay the fee before the timer ran down to zero!
So now...I begin my true, long awaited quest, of ending my own personal agony of constant trials and tribulations, over a 50 year trek of "Realizing Myself". For I James Deo Dawson Sr...
I AM A WRITER!
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Hello James,
ReplyDeleteI definitely have a very good understanding of your situation.
By the way, my name is Dave and I recently joined Harvey Silver Fox Leads Factory under you.
Back in 1995 after years of struggling with chronic angina, I was given a triple cardiac bypass. This gave me about five years of relatively good health until I suffered a heart attack. After an angiogram, I was told that there was nothing more they could do surgically and that my condition could be controlled by medication.
In other words, keep taking dozens of tablets a day and always have a GTN aerosol spray in your pocket. So that is how I have survived Heart wise since then.
Then about 10 or eleven years ago, at the age of 57, I was diagnosed with Parkinsons Disease. If you know any thing about this condition, you will understand how utterly frustrating it is.
It can and often does affect every aspect of your life.from making you feel drowsy during most of your waking hours and difficulty in sleeping at night, loss of balance, so you keep falling, poor physical coordination making any thing like typing and using the computer mouse very slow and laborious and often making mistakes that you have to go back and correct.
However, as I often tell myself, Parkinsons is unlikely to kill me so being an eternal optimist, I am convinced that somehow, I am going to get our current sad financial situation put to rights before I leave this mortal coil. And to do that the only path open to me is the internet.
Up to now, however, it has cost me a lot and made me nothing.
Now reading your story has encouraged me to share mine. It has also given me renewed inspiration and I am determined to succeed.
Thank you for sharing your story and may your health improve with your continued internet success.
Dave
Hello Dave,
DeleteI deeply appreciate your response to my article and I will include you in my prayers. I am very familiar with Parkinsons and how it ravages the human body, self respect and spiritual beliefs if permitted to do so.
It is often that when we speak of our health our physical condition that we come in contact with someone that has either endured more pain and suffering or has an additional disease or condition that they are suffering that you have not had to endure, such as in your case compared to mine.
I can not even begin to imagine the inner emotional, physical, and spiritual challenges that you endure 24/7/365.
I read your post to my wife...and I began to cry.
I am VERY happy to hear that my article has inspired you to share your own story and given you renewed inspiration and determination to succeed.
I invite you to visit my other blogs that I created specifically targeted at helping people. Not only with their health issues but also to motivate them and to help them succeed on the internet. A place to go when you are feeling a little down and you need a kick in the pants to get your mojo going again!
For Your Health Advice and Recommended Natural Products:
http://JD-Health.blogspot.com
And For Your Motivational Blog:
http://JDDawsonAssociates.webs.com
Audio and Full Participation Motivational Website:
http://thinkandgrowrichaudios.com/free-downloads/
And Oh Yes...I Started A Writer's Blog That You May Enjoy:
http://JDDawsonFreelanceWriter.blogspot.com/
Thank you again Dave for sharing you story and may YOUR health improve as well.
As far as your internet success...I hope that you and I will have many more years of business together and who knows...we may meet one day to share our life experiences to one another. Wouldn't that be grand?!:-)
Dave, I CAN help you...if you let me. I spent thousands of dollars getting to where I am right now on the internet. I AM making money...BUT...you not only have to have the right program for YOU, but also be involved in program's that are duplicatable. I HIGHLY recommend that you go to the Audio and Full Participation Motivational Website mentioned above.
Respectfully,
James Deo Dawson Sr "JD", NMD
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